Bottom Vers Bratty Boy...I think.

bottomDear Flame Dame,

I can't help but notice that the guys on the dating and hook up websites all have labels attached to themselves. Everything from Top, Bottom, Vers, Subby, Slave, Bratty, Dom, and pretty much anything you can imagine. As I haven't been out of the closet for too long, my sexual experiences are fairly limited. I honestly don't know what I like or which "labels" would fit me best. Besides experimentation, how do I figure out what I am?

Sincerely Bottom Vers Bratty Boy...I think.

Dear BVBB,

I like to treat labels as nothing more than what they are...just words.

I personally have had a lot of struggle trying to affix any kind of label to my sexual orientation and practices. As easy as it may be for some, don't feel like you need to fit a very specific mould like others.

I highly encourage sexual practice with an open minded and considerate partner to help you figure out what you like. Make sure you choose someone who is open to allowing you try both being a "bottom" and a "top". You might just find that you like one more than the other or that you love it all! Only through dipping your toes into everything will you find out what it is you like and don't like. Don't feel obligated to attach a label to yourself just for the sake of easier identification by others.

Be who you are, do what you like and you will be happy.

Big Busty Hugs

The Flame Dame

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